Mandarin Chinese for Kids
How to Say "Excuse me" in Mandarin Chinese
A polite way to get someone's attention or pass through a crowd.
In Mandarin Chinese (中文)
对不起 (Duìbùqǐ)
Pronounced: dway-boo-CHEE
What “Excuse me” means and when to use it
The listed Mandarin Chinese expression in this lesson is “对不起 (Duìbùqǐ).” Its beginner pronunciation approximation is “dway-boo-CHEE.” A polite way to get someone's attention or pass through a crowd. The approximation is a reading scaffold, not a replacement for the native writing or for listening to a speaker whose variety you are learning.
Use this to get attention politely, pass through a crowded space, interrupt for an important reason, or acknowledge a minor accidental contact. Languages often use different expressions for these functions, and a listed translation may fit some scenes better than others. Begin with the neutral attention-getting scene described here. Say it before the interruption, then wait for acknowledgment. For actual harm, the separately listed sorry phrase may be more appropriate than treating excuse me as a complete apology.
No pushing or forced touch belongs in the role-play. Ideas about interruption and personal space vary, so focus on waiting and observing the response.
Mandarin Chinese pronunciation workshop
Mandarin uses tones, so pitch movement helps distinguish words. Pinyin marks high level, rising, dipping, and falling tones, plus a light neutral tone. Tone marks in the romanization inside parentheses matter; an English-style all-caps hint cannot capture them fully. Keep syllables clean and do not turn q, x, zh, or c into their most obvious English values. For example, pinyin q is a light, forward sound somewhat near ch. Practice tone shape and syllable together instead of learning the consonants first and adding melody later.
Now apply those sound ideas specifically to “对不起 (Duìbùqǐ).” Read the native form first, then use “dway-boo-CHEE” to locate the broad sound sequence and emphasized syllable. Say the entire expression in one comfortable turn. Do not substitute English sounds more strongly merely because a letter looks familiar, and do not erase marks, accents, or characters when copying it.
Trace the tone mark in the air while saying the romanized syllable, then point to the Chinese characters and repeat. Keep the beat even and make the pitch movement deliberate rather than louder. Record yourself only if helpful; compare pitch direction, not whether your voice sounds like someone else's.
Respectful context across China
Mandarin is one of several Chinese languages, and Chinese-speaking communities are highly varied. Politeness often comes through wording, titles, context, and considerate behavior rather than a direct equivalent of every English courtesy formula. A small nod or friendly verbal greeting may suit many situations, while physical greeting customs depend on the people and place. Simplified characters appear in mainland China and Singapore; traditional characters are common in Taiwan, Hong Kong, and many communities abroad. Both systems deserve recognition.
This lesson teaches one useful listed translation, not the only wording used by all Mandarin Chinese speakers. Age, relationship, region, and situation can change a speaker's choice. A good learner notices those choices, asks respectfully when appropriate, and accepts correction without arguing that a phrase list must outrank a person's own language experience.
Practice activity: scene, speak, reflect
Mark a wide pretend pathway with paper. Partner A stands safely to one side; Partner B approaches, says the translated excuse-me phrase, and waits. Partner A moves the paper marker to open the path. In another round, Partner B raises a question card, says the phrase, and waits for eye contact before an English question is read. Swap roles. Compare a respectful volume with shouting, and finish by choosing whether three English scenes call for excuse me or sorry.
Use three passes. On pass one, read “对不起 (Duìbùqǐ)” while a partner checks every word or character. On pass two, look only at the scene card and retrieve the expression from memory. On pass three, use an English scene prompt and deliver the Mandarin Chinese speaking turn at a natural volume. Afterward, explain in English why the phrase fit that scene. This keeps meaning, respectful behavior, and pronunciation together instead of rewarding speed alone.
A successful attempt is understandable and considerate, not accent-free. Mark one detail you kept consistent—perhaps the stress, a long vowel, a tone direction, a final consonant, or the full word order—and choose one detail for another careful repetition. Stop before practice becomes rushed. Short, attentive rounds build a more reliable memory than saying the phrase many times without listening to yourself or your partner.
Practice dialogue
- Scene prompt (English)
- Learner A needs to ask a librarian a question while the librarian is sorting books.
- Role-play cue (English)
- Learner A waits for a pause and uses the target attention-getting phrase.
- Mandarin Chinese target speaking turn — Learner A
- 对不起 (Duìbùqǐ)
- Role-play reply/action (English) — Learner B
- Yes, how can I help?
- Mandarin Chinese speaking turn — Learner B
- 是 (Shì)
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