German for Kids
How to Say "Sorry" in German
Apologizing in someone's language shows that you care about their feelings.
In German (Deutsch)
Entschuldigung
Pronounced: ent-SHOOL-dee-goong
What “Sorry” means and when to use it
The listed German expression in this lesson is “Entschuldigung.” Its beginner pronunciation approximation is “ent-SHOOL-dee-goong.” Apologizing in someone's language shows that you care about their feelings. The approximation is a reading scaffold, not a replacement for the native writing or for listening to a speaker whose variety you are learning.
Use this apology after a mistake or small harm: bumping into someone, interrupting, losing a borrowed item, or hurting feelings. A sincere apology also involves stopping the behavior, listening, and repairing what can be repaired; the word alone is not a reset button. Some listed forms can overlap with excuse me or express sympathy, while other languages choose different words by situation. Practice an accidental, low-stakes scene and keep the translated phrase exactly as listed rather than inventing promises.
Do not require apologies for harmless cultural or pronunciation differences. Reserve the practice for an action that actually needs acknowledgment.
German pronunciation workshop
German spelling is relatively consistent once a few patterns are known. Initial w sounds like English v, while initial j sounds like English y. The ch in ich is soft and forward; after back vowels it may be rougher, as in Bach. German r varies by region, so either a light tongue r or a back-of-mouth r can be understood. Umlauts ä, ö, and ü represent their own vowel qualities, not decorated versions to ignore. Give consonants a clean finish and follow the marked stress in the approximation without overdoing it.
Now apply those sound ideas specifically to “Entschuldigung.” Read the native form first, then use “ent-SHOOL-dee-goong” to locate the broad sound sequence and emphasized syllable. Say the entire expression in one comfortable turn. Do not substitute English sounds more strongly merely because a letter looks familiar, and do not erase marks, accents, or characters when copying it.
Say the consonant frame slowly, then add the vowels while keeping every syllable connected. Check whether any written w, j, ch, or umlaut appears. Finish the last consonant crisply instead of adding an extra uh, and repeat the complete phrase three times at an easy pace.
Respectful context across Germany & Central Europe
German is pluricentric, with standard varieties and regional speech in Germany, Austria, Switzerland, and elsewhere. Du is common among children and in many informal communities; Sie is the formal address for adults in contexts where distance or respect is expected. Greeting habits range from a spoken greeting to a handshake among adults. Direct wording can be courteous rather than unfriendly. Learners should avoid treating one national custom or accent as universal across all German-speaking places.
This lesson teaches one useful listed translation, not the only wording used by all German speakers. Age, relationship, region, and situation can change a speaker's choice. A good learner notices those choices, asks respectfully when appropriate, and accepts correction without arguing that a phrase list must outrank a person's own language experience.
Practice activity: scene, speak, reflect
Use paper shapes for three repair scenes: a knocked-over block tower, an interrupted turn, and a misplaced pencil. Read the scene in English. The learner says the translated apology, then completes a silent repair action—rebuild, wait, or return the pencil. Their partner acknowledges with a nod, without being required to forgive immediately. Rotate all roles. After three rounds, learners explain in English which action made each apology more meaningful and repeat the target phrase from memory.
Use three passes. On pass one, read “Entschuldigung” while a partner checks every word or character. On pass two, look only at the scene card and retrieve the expression from memory. On pass three, use an English scene prompt and deliver the German speaking turn at a natural volume. Afterward, explain in English why the phrase fit that scene. This keeps meaning, respectful behavior, and pronunciation together instead of rewarding speed alone.
A successful attempt is understandable and considerate, not accent-free. Mark one detail you kept consistent—perhaps the stress, a long vowel, a tone direction, a final consonant, or the full word order—and choose one detail for another careful repetition. Stop before practice becomes rushed. Short, attentive rounds build a more reliable memory than saying the phrase many times without listening to yourself or your partner.
Practice dialogue
- Scene prompt (English)
- Learner A accidentally knocks over Learner B’s small block tower.
- Role-play cue (English)
- Learner A stops, helps rebuild, and says the target apology.
- German target speaking turn — Learner A
- Entschuldigung
- Role-play reply/action (English) — Learner B
- Thank you for helping rebuild it.
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